Entries by Julie Spira

Can Love Survive Trump?

Originally written during Donald Trump’s first presidency, this personal essay inspired my book, Love in the Age of Trump: How Politics Is Polarizing Relationships. Revised October 2026. I grew up believing that love conquers all, but in this current political climate, I fear that Donald Trump has destroyed romance as it once existed. I’m a […]

Is Politics Still a Dating Dealbreaker?

The 2026 midterm elections are less than a month away, and politics is back on the ballot and in our love lives. More than a decade ago, when Donald Trump first announced his candidacy for president, I began documenting the tension I was witnessing firsthand in dating and relationships. I interviewed more than 100 singles […]

Not Voting Reduces Your Chance of Finding a Date

Voting is sexy, and if you don’t cast your vote in an election, you just might not be dateable. Of the many requirements singles have when selecting a date, you can now add the question of “Did you vote?” as one of them. In our Facebook survey, we posed the question of, “Would you date […]